I like watching movies. Some movies are so touching that involves your feeling and sometimes make you cry. Other movies have good conversation that gives you another way to see something. Sometimes you make it into quotes that bring something meaningful in living your own life. This is one of epilogue from movie He's Just Not That Into You. Maybe you should read.
Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up:
If a guy punches you, he likes you
Never try to trim your own bangs
And someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending
Every movie we see, every story we're told, implores us to wait for it
The third act twist: The unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule
But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending, we don't learn how to read the signs
How to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don't
The ones who will stay from the ones who will leave
And maybe this happy ending doesn't include a wonderful guy
Maybe it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over
Freeing yourself up for something better in the future
Maybe the happy ending is just... moving on
Or maybe the happy ending is this: Knowing that through all the unreturned phone calls and broken hearts, through all the blunders and misread signals, through all of the pain and embarrassment...
You never, ever gave up hope